QUESTIONS FOR MEN ASPIRING TO MARRY AND THE ALREADY MARRIED.

                        AM I READY TO BE A RESPONSIBLE  HUSBAND AND FATHER?

 
 A question for men who are aspiring to enter  into marriage bond and those already married. Marriage is a serious business that is meant for people who are ready to sacrifice so many things in their lives. It is also a comitment,once you are in it no going back. It should not be seen as mere friendship that you can easily enter into and jumps out as you please rather it should be taken more seriously because it is a union of a man and woman uniting together as one body and one spirit. So it requires both spiritual and mental readiness.
These are some questions for men who wish to enter into this marriage commitment:
_Am I striving to become the manly type of husband/father that down in my heart i know i can and should be?
-Would i be willing to have my conversations,stories and jokes recorded?
-Am i really trying to control my temper and language because i must be held accountable by God?
-When speaking,do i charitably build people up or critically tear them down?
-Can i be proud of my record regarding sincerity towards my wife?
-Will i always be modest in my home, out in the yard, at the beach and at the golf course?
-Will i be exemplary to my family?
-Will i be shirking in my God-given responsibility of being the head of the family by making my wife bear all the obligations?
-Will i treat my wife as a true partner and confide in her as to my salary,insurance, business deals and plans for the future?
-Will my wife be just a maid, spending much of her time hanging my clothes, putting away my shoes, hats and ties?
-Will i be considerate of my wife concerning her privileges of married life or will i selfishly seek pleasures for myself without any thought of her feelings and conditions?
-Will i accept the children that God will give us through her not minding their sexes?
   These are the questions men who wants to enter into marriage or those who are already into marriage should be able to answer so as to achieve the one sweet home!

By:Franca Igwilo.