ONE OF THE MAJOR REASONS WHY MARRIAGES BREAK UP!.

         

       
AND THE TWO BECOMES ONE!
One of the major reasons why marriages break up!

After all said and done,it's now the couple living in their world. Friends will come and go, both good ones and bad ones. It is now time for the couple to choose who will be their friend and who will not. Where they will go and where they will not.
In some cases families of both parties will like to intrude either to take part in decision making or to be part of them or  just to be poke nosing into their affairs.
 Couples who wish to achieve a sweet home or better still that one sweet home should beware of families of both sides to avoid creating problems for themselves.
I've seen cases where marriages were broken beyond repair as a result of this.
The mother of the man in question left her home, came and stayed with the family making things difficult for them. The son will always try to please her and in the process of trying to please her displeases his wife. This kept on going on and on until the wife couldn't contain it anymore and so alerted her own mother who also came and decided to spend time with them too in other to save her daughter. Her presence in the house caused more havoc for the two became cat and dog, such a disaster! You can just figure out what they turned the house into.
Finally the marriage broke up. There are so many marriages out there that are witnessing such because they allowed family member/s to be fully part of them.
While in some cases the man seeks the advice/consent of the mother before taking any decision because the wife's opinion and ideas does not matter. At a point the wife felt being looked down on and quits the marriage.
You can see such cases in a family where the man is "mum's boy".
 This on the other hand does not mean that the families of both parties should become their enemies or should not visit, no, but caution should be applied.
They have to use their discretion when it comes to their family members.
Couples and their different family members should always bear this portion of the Bible in mind"A man/woman should abandon his/her family and goes to the husband/wife and the two becomes one body and one spirit." "What God has joined together let no man put asunder".Couples who wish to achieve that one sweet home should consider all these for their dream to come through.

By:Franca Igwilo.